Where there is separation and loss, there is greatpain. Feeling this grief is the omly way to ease this pain and this loss. Experience has proven that when we fully confront the pain, we can make peace with it." 

Bert Hellinger NO WAVES WITHOUT THE OCEAN 

To survive loss or abandonment, a child will close off, disassociate from, or exclude that which is unbearable or not accepted.

However, life pulls and has to go on; estranged from the "self" that could not cope at the time. Developing a necessary "protection" that may not serve you today. Within this excluded self——or what the Jungians call the Shadow--there might be the capacity to be vulnerable, a different kind of strength, permission to be weak, or a powerful voice not yet heard. 

Through Constellations we can examine the layers of abandonment, separation, and loss both personal and generational. You will learn new strategies to live with the lingering "dust" of abandonment without giving in to fear, abandoning yourself, or being hijacked by anger or resentment. You will learn to make peace with the past and find the learning in the wounding.